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What was childhood like for my grandmother Mary Waggoner’s
mother, Rachel Havens? Born in 1862 when her mother was 38 years old, during
the second year of the Civil War, Rachel was the sixth of seven children. Her
siblings were Bryant, born 1843; Andrew Jackson, born 1845; Cosby Victoria,
born 1846; John James, born 1850; Barbara Elizabeth, born 1852; then a younger
brother James Winton “Wint,” born 1865. Due to that ten year time gap between
the birth of Elizabeth and Rachel, it’s possible there were other children who
died. Many families lost children in those days.
War or no war, the family seems to have had little in terms
of financial resources. Census records show that her father,
James Havens, owned no land. In the 1860 Wythe County Virginia census, his personal estate was valued
at $500.00.
[1]
In today’s dollars, this amounts to about $11,295.00, according to “historic
value of the dollar” on Google.com/answers.
Considering the time she was born and her father’s finances,
it’s safe to say that she must have faced hardships. Early in the war, Rachel’s
brothers Bryant and Andrew had enlisted with Company F, 45
th
Virginia Infantry.
[2] What
anxiety must have permeated the home to have these older brothers gone off to
war! By 1864, at age 43, her father James had also enlisted, but with Co. A, 11
Battalion, Virginia Reserves, Wallace’s Battalion, CSA, serving under his older
brother, Captain John Havens.
[3] At the end
of the war, James signed an oath of allegiance to the United States Government
on 13 June 1865, in Charleston, West Virginia.
[4]
All of them returned from the war, but James survived only a
short time. Sometime between signing the oath and the 1870 census, he died
leaving his wife, Mary Jane to fend for herself with two small children still
at home. By 1870, she had moved to Maiden Spring, Tazewell County. Besides
Rachel and Wint, sister Cosby and brother John were still at home with their
mother. John, who was working as a farm laborer, appears to have been the only source
of income for the household.
[5]
The war was disastrous for the South, and this was only five
short years later. The war had ripped apart families and country and killed
thousands of the nation’s young men. In the years following the war, Virginia’s
economy was in ruins, many banks had closed, Confederate money was worthless,
many families had lost husbands and sons. Soldiers in the South had returned to
ruined homes and farms and plantations. Mary Jane Havens and her family surely
were struggling to survive. Many children worked odd jobs for people to earn a
little extra money for the family. By 1880, Rachel was working as a cook in the
home of a young attorney, S. W. Williams and his family, on Jackson Street in Sedden,
now Bland, Virginia.
[6] Mary Jane
had also moved to Sedden and lived with her daughter Elizabeth and husband,
John Pauley; she earned her living knitting stockings.
[7]
This link will take you to a great map of Bland County, so you can get an idea of where they lived, and you can see the relationship to surrounding counties, especially Tazewell. Smyth County is straight south, but the name is not on the map.
This was life for Rachel at age 18 when she met and married
young Mark Rhea Deavor, age 19 in January 1881. We just do not know what
hardships they faced that caused their divorce. Apparently, no children were born to
them. Considering the cultural mores of the 1880s, especially in rural areas
such as Rich Valley, Smyth County Virginia, when divorce was not the norm, they
may have been scorned. Some people may have gossiped about them or looked down
on them. I can only speculate. What might have been a scandal then is ho hum
today. But we do know that a year after her divorce, Rachel married our
great-grandfather, Eli Pierce Waggoner, and the two of them raised eight
children, including our grandmother Mary, and had a long life together.
[1] 1860 U.S.
census, Wythe County, Virginia, population schedule, sixty-eighth district, p.
165 (penned), dwelling 1234, family 1100, James Harins [Havens], database
Ancestry.com (http://www.ancestry.com :
accessed 08 July 2013).
[2] U.S. Civil
War Soldier Records and Profiles, 1861-1865, Bryant Havens, Private, Company F,
Virginia 45th Infantry Regiment; database
Ancestry.com
(www.ancestry.com, accessed 10 July 2013). Kentucky, Confederate Pension
Records, 1912-1930, Andrew J. Havens, 45
th Virginia Infantry;
database
Ancestry.com
(http://www.ancestry.com : accessed 11 July 2013).
[3] Military,
compiled service records, Civil War, Confederate, images
Fold3 (http://www.fold3.com : accessed 8 July 2013), card for James
Havens, Pvt., Co. A, 11 Battalion Virginia Reserves, 1864-1865.
[5] 1870 U. S.
census, Maiden Spring, Tazewell County, Virginia, population schedule, Knob
Post Office, p. 88 (penned), dwelling 501, family 511, Mary Havens family;
digital image,
Ancestry.com
(http://www.ancestry.com : accessed 8 July 2013); citing National Archives and
Records Administration microfilm publication T9, roll 1356.
[6] 1880 U.S.
census, Sedden, Bland County, Virginia, population schedule, enumeration
district (ED) 6, p. 19 (penned), dwelling 2, family 2, Rachael Havens; digital
image,
Ancesrty.com
(http://www.ancestry.com : accessed 2 July 2013); citing National Archives and
Records Administration microfilm publication T9, roll 1390.
[7] 1880 U.S.
census, Sedden, Bland County, Virginia, population schedule, enumeration
district (ED) 6, p. 1 (penned), dwelling 2, family 2, John G Pauley household;
digital image,
Ancesrty.com
(http://www.ancestry.com : accessed 11 July 2013); citing National Archives and
Records Administration microfilm publication T9, roll 1356.
(c) 2013 Z. T. Noble